This post is part of the Breastfeeding Blog Hop hosted by The Slacker Mom and co-hosted by Happiness Redefined and me, The Gnome’s Mom. This week’s topic is “Breastfeeding in The News or Celebrity Breastfeeders“ Scroll down to see more posts or even better, link up and join the fun!

I wasn’t going to write about that magazine cover. I mean, it got enough press as it is. But then Erin from The Slacker Mom had to go and make this week’s Breastfeeding Blog Hop topic “Breastfeeding in the News.” So, here we are.

I only ever see breastfeeding portrayed in the news two ways. It is either “the best” (New study shows breast milk can cure cancer!) or some awful form of child abuse (Moms nursing toddlers will ruin their lives!). It may not be said, but it is definitely implied. It wouldn’t really be “news” if breastfeeding was shown for what it really is.

Breastfeeding is the normal way to feed a child. From birth until whenever the mother-child pair is done with it.

I can assure you that the nursing child will eventually be done with nursing. That’s my story and, unless I meet a high school senior that is still nursing, I’m sticking to it. As long as the mother and child are okay with it continuing, it is nobody else’s business.

As for everyone* who says that after (insert inappropriate opinion here) months, or years, it is for the mother and not for the child: If you’ve ever parented a toddler, you will know that there is no way in hell you can force that child to do anything they don’t want to. Including nurse. It just doesn’t happen. And if you’ve ever nursed a toddler you will know that there is nothing fun about nursing a toddler 95% of the time.

I’ll admit that about 5% of the time, there is a sweet bond and I know that I will miss nursing The Gnome when we are done. The other 95% of the time? I can not wait for his squirmy worm, can’t sit still, distracted little self to WEAN! But he isn’t ready, and I’m not ready to rip the one thing that comforts him more than anything else away from him.

For the record? I have the magazine, and the article has absolutely nothing to do with breastfeeding. It’s a piece on Dr. Sears and attachment parenting. What do I think of the cover? It’s going to sell magazines, just like it was intended to do. But also, it’s kind of bad ass. I think I’m going to frame the cover and put it up in my shop.

Instead of being offended by the words, “Are You Mom Enough?” Just know that yes, you are. We all are.

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*By everyone, I am including both my own mother and my mother in law. Both have been supportive of breastfeeding. Yet, both have made comments about breastfeeding after a certain age being more “for the mother.” VOMIT.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1497382601 Ashley Barrett

    You said it perfectly!  It really is no one’s business but the mama and baby :).  Thanks for this post!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1497382601 Ashley Barrett

    By the way I know I’m going to get TONS of crap if we go visit our family next month that I’m nursing a *gasp* 17 month old (then-now he’s 16 months and is showing no signs of stopping).  My husband has started the “Oh he’s distracted-he’s trying to wean” crap that I know isn’t true.  He’s mostly supportive but I know our extended family is going to say a lot of crap about me nursing still.  DS1 weaned himself by 14.5 months I think mostly because he could never wean from the nipple shield because he was so nipple confused in the beginning from a severe tongue-tie.  This one still loves his nursies though and I’m not going to wean him until he’s ready.

  • wvernonSC Family

    “it is nobody else’s business”<— THAT! Says it all. :D

  • Kim M

    I personally don’t mind the cover on the magazine. Sure it was done to sell magazines and yes it got a lot of people saying nasty and negative things BUT I am sure there are a few mother’s out there with very little breastfeeding support/resources who are struggling with whether to wean their toddlers because society says they should. Maybe, just maybe, this cover will give them to courage to say ‘screw it’ it feels right for us and we are continuing on for as long as that will be. If you are interested there is a 5 part series on youtube called “extraordinary breastfeeding” profiling mother’s in the UK who are nursing past 12 months, tandem nursing, and nursing multiples. It is a really interesting and well done documentary.

    • http://thegnomesmom.com Lori W

      Awesome, thanks Kim, I will check it out!

  • Katrin

    Thank you so much for this post, Lori. You said it all! My doctor even told me that nursing my baby after 6(!) month is only because I can’t let go. SERIOUSLY???? My babe is 11,5 month now. I went to a friends house last night and asked for something else to drink than beer. She asked if I am on medication, because I didn’t want alcohol. When she heard that I am still(!) nursing she was very surprised and said there is no benefit to it. Why am I still doing that? BECAUSE we both feel very alright with it. He still wants it even more than a couple of months ago. Why would I say “Happy 1st Birthday, but boob is a no no now”? I am already confronted with a lot of crap about nursing an 11 months. I fear it is only getting worse from here… Thanks for that encouraging post.

    • http://thegnomesmom.com Lori W

      Wow, I can’t believe your doctor said that!!! Good for you for doing what is right for you and your baby!